2011년 4월 17일 일요일

Cohabitation?

  Marriage could be a splendid experience that our life ever have. you will be permanently tied to the one person you really love the most. You probably get to move in with them and go through the daily struggles every couple deals with. But what happens next when you just don’t plain get along? When you start to notice every little thing about that person that bothers you? When you are not able to work things out because you have never been in this situation before? Divorce happens in real situation.

  When couples move in together before marriage, a good way to know if your partner is really the one for you is cohabitation. Though this may be opposed by many religious groups and conservatives, it is more common now than ever. Cohabitating couples get to live the marriage life without officially tying the knot. Cohabiting couples typically take upon themselves about all the responsibilities and advantages of marriage, such as sexual fidelity, sharing of property, raising children, and so on. All that is missing is formal legality. Some people believe that couples who live together before marriage are more likely to divorce than couples who do not. 

  But here in the Korea, this opinion will be criticized by many kind of conservative people. The other people, however, believe that cohabitation is beneficial because you get to know this person before you decide to commit yourself for the rest of your life and if it doesn’t work out you don't have to spend money on a divorce. Cohabitation can be great at time because you can do a trial run marriage before you spend the rest of your life with this person and it helps determine whether the relationship is meant to be. This can be mistaken, in fact; numerous studies have shown the opposite to be true. The rate of divorce is about 50 percent higher among those who live together before marriage. Therefore, I believe that living together before marriage will be beneficial for them.

댓글 4개:

  1. I'm sorry that not all the people have responsibility and realize especially what they doing now. Nevertheless I agree with your idea. And respect your English skill. What a smooth phrase! :)

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  2. i almost agree with you. but do we have to be that perfect? we are all humans and humans usually grow up with making mistakes. making mistakes don't mean bad so that could be re thinking, i guess

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  3. Thank you. I appreciate of you guys opinion :) My English skill is just getting started.

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  4. I agree with your idea. because Cohabitation is very disgusting to me.

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